If you were one of those girls that raised your hand in class, who wanted to be president of the club, who talked louder than others to be heard....then you were probably called this.

But it makes girls doubt themselves at a very dangerous age.  At an age when it can change who they are and who they become.  It's not harmless, as one of "those" girls myself...I can say that is does make you question being assertive. Few people ever say this to boys....

 

 

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